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by No. 93365
Ive been seeing this girl for a few weeks now, its going really well and I dont wanna blow it by scaring her off with this kink, but we were talking the other day and she was saying (shes kind of chubby already) that shes really comfortable/doesnt really care about her weight, that she thinks curves are really womanly and wouldn't ever really be worried about losing weight/working out unless she was morbidly obese. I care much more about the relationship than satisfying this kink, but when would be a good time to tell her I'm into this? Given how comfortable she is with her weight, I feel like a few months in would be alright cause she might respond pretty well, even if she isnt into herself. Looking for advice and opinions though, because I have been broken up with before once I told my partner of a year about this kink. Thanks in advance guys.
My ex was a naturally smelly fat girl. I love naturally smelly fat girls. When we first started dating, she told me she gets stinky very easily and has to shower multiple times a day to stay clean. I didn't say anything, but inside my head I was like "score!". Turns out, she was kind of into being a smelly fat girl and liked to "wallow in her stink like a pig" when I wasn't around. Did I mention she was HELLA autistic? But she didn't admit that for years. And neither did I. So we spent like 3 years pretending we didn't like it when her fat folds got all sweaty and her body odor got out of control. What a fucking waste of time.
>>93390 > Did I mention she was HELLA autistic? Score. I remember when I took the retard pill and realized the girls i knew from special ed could easily become 8/10 feedees with some control and coaching.
>>93365 When would be a good time? Depends on what you want to tell. If you wnat to tell that you are into big girls: go ahead and tell her already. It will probably be a reassurance for her. If you want to tell that you would like her bigger: be careful, especially because she has said she doesn't want to be morbidly obese. Tell her that you like big girls, then when there is an appropriate opportunity, tell her that you wouldn't mind if she were bigger. But telling her that you would like to deliberately feed her bigger is a very big hurdle to take. I would keep that for myself unless I was pretty sure that she wouldn't mind it.
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>>93365 >because I have been broken up with before once I told my partner of a year about this kink. You've already said saying it previously screwed it up, don't do it. You don't need to fess up that you like fat girls, your dick will tell her this. Just because she's said something that's giving you a boner doesn't mean she's suddenly up for being your feedee and becoming an ssbbw for you. That's porn, it's not real life when Brianna saying you should choose her as your feedee. Go and enjoy having a relationship with someone you clearly like.