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Really? Have you seen the guys who come on here? Bigger chance of getting someone who wants to fatten her and while he would give good care in the meantime, I think someone who "likes" her enough to be willing to give their time and effort is going to want something in return. If she was maintaining and just needed help, that's one thing, as being around her and in the presence of someone that huge would be reward enough. But I don't see any guy in the FA community altruistically helping her lose weight.
And who knows, maybe the sabotage would be encouraged by the bf. I find it hard to believe anyone who got together with someone that fat - especially when she was that fat when they met - being into her losing weight. So he might enjoy having a "partner in crime" making sure the sabotage was 24-7.