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Experience with BBWs on dating apps Anonymous 04/26/2026 (Sun) 15:34:44 Id:6d6bb0 No. 84534
Just wanted to read some of your experiences with matching with BBWs on dating apps and share my own. >A while back, someone suggested I try Facebook Dating if I want to find more fat chicks and BBW >Make a new account and wait 1-2 months before Facebook gives me access to the Dating app >To my surprise, the algorithm shows me BBWs or chubby women of various ages 90% of the time. Unlike Tinder. >Match with a couple, but barely get a response or conversation most of the time I know I suck at flirting, but after multiple attempts and trying different strategies, I'm feeling kinda done with it.
Most of my tinder dates (and therefore most of my dates) have been with BBWs. 3 in my first year of uni, including my first time and 2 in one week. While I'm obviously into them it's interesting that it seems to be more down to fat girls being more interested in me than other girls
>>84542 damn I wish, the girls that like me are all skinny granola white hippy chicks or like skinny asian girls. I can eventually match with a fat girl, but its an uphill battle. I guess I don't "code" as a FA on the profile. Don't know what that would look like without being weird as hell tho
hinge has been incredibly good to me, the algorithm found out i like fat chicks and i’ve probably gone out with at least 4 big and pretty hot girls since getting on there just went on a date with a pretty big girl today. she was gorgeous. watching her arm fat jiggle when she adjusted her hair and her double chin swell when she looked down at her phone to pull up a photo got my shit stiff. feels retarded to admit that
>>84554 If you're on tinder try super liking. I am a 600lb woman. I didn't think anyone would genuinely notice me on tinder. I got some likes and assumed maybe they were from guy who swiped on everyone. When I got super likes I thought ok he must like fat women. All my pictures are full length, it's very clear I am an ssbbw.
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>>84568 Probably a LARP but plenty of fat chicks do know how to find feeders and such.
>>84572 You don't think there are fat women on here? 😂😂
>>84564 I've heard good things about Hinge as well. I definitely give it a try once I take some better profile photos. >>84542 For years, I've seen people complain about Tinder only giving the fat women. I finally tried it myself only to barely see any. I live in the southern US, so I was baffled. Either the Tinder algorithm was just against me or BBWs have largely stopped using Tinder.
I had success with Craigslist before they shut down the Personals section
>>84575 It's a rule of the Internet: there are no women here. It's a chan thing. I don't think there are any 600lb women here because why would they be here?
>>84584 WooPlus: almost impossible to get matches unless you pay for premium and live in the city. Only shows like 30 profiles a day. Decent selection but they’re all far away and mostly inactive. I even made a catfish Chad profile once that got hundreds of likes in a week and it would take me way too many days to encounter all the ones that swiped right. FB Dating: Free, no need for a premium version, generous amounts of swipes per day, HELLA sloppy big bitches once the algorithm finds out what you like. But a lot of them “forget” to reply or are inactive. Also a lot are far away and they keep showing you the hottest women that are 400 miles away as soon as you open the app before you change the radius. Feeld: A lot of freaky, mostly mid and ugly women. Could be very few and far between depending on where you life. I get a fairly high match rate on there. Good amount of BBWs if you’re ok with outspoken blue haired leftists with chopped faces. Tinder: I think I got shadow banned a long time ago so it almost never works for me when I make a new account. I’ll get like 10 matches in the first couple days then it dries up to 1-2 a month quickly. Easy to fall into the “buy premium to be seen more” trap and super likes become the only way to get noticed. Hinge: Probably the best when it comes to quality over quantity. High response rate, shows quality BBWs that are more relationship material than the fuckpigs on Field and FB, can’t swipe right on more than like 10 a day but being choosy feels better.
>>84612 >Wooplus It seemed nice at first, but only ever got messaged by women trying to scam or sell nudes >Also a lot are far away and they keep showing you the hottest women that are 400 miles away as soon as you open the app before you change the radius. Good to know my experience is shared and that the hottest and most likely to respond fat chicks are all 100+ miles away
>>84588 I wish I was able to use Craigslist personals at its height. I've used fetlife groups/personals and only managed to get one hookup out of it.
>>84564 Don't know wtf I must be doing wrong. I've only gotten 2 conversations on there in the past 8 months and neither went anywhere. I have decent pictures, most people I know always compliment my looks, a good amount of info in the profile, and I always message with something I liked about their profile or a "real" message" and no boring "what's ups" or "hey" or anything. But even sending the roses, basically nothing. A girl I talked to on POF actually told me my messages there got put at the bottom of her inbox and with no notifications, just my messages though, with other users stacking on top of mine like I'd been shadowbanned on a damn dating site ffs lol.
>>85805 > most people I know always compliment my looks Ask strangers. Forcing your friends and family to reassure your ugly ass isn’t helping you learn why you’re single. > But even sending the roses, basically nothing. A girl I talked to on POF actually told me my messages there got put at the bottom of her inbox and with no notifications, just my messages though, with other users stacking on top of mine like I'd been shadowbanned on a damn dating site ffs lol. You’re not shadowbanned you’re just a thin skinned loser who isn’t built for the game. Stop trying to buy sex with digital roses, go find an ugly woman in the real world and be nice to her, you shouldn’t be searching online until you grow up a bit and stop being such a bitch looking for excuses for your failures. You’d be surprised how much easier it would be to find your messages if your shot within your league, weren’t an ugly out of shape loser, and had some game.
My experiences so far: On WooPlus which I installed 3 weeks ago I had 7 likes by real accounts, with 2 I matched and wrote, at one she lost interest after 4-5 messages, the other one got bored for me personally, 2 others I matched never replied back and the other 3 weren’t interesting for me for different reasons. On Tinder long time ago I matched with one but also here I was the one to unmatch because she seemed boring to me as well. On Hinge at least here BBWs doesn’t seem to exist, haven’t tried Bumble and Lovoo yet. I‘m 1,78 m and 125 kg, so can consider myself as BHM and yeah I haven’t bad photos. I also made a clear profile with good descriptions describing my activities shown on the profile pictures. The only problem of WooPlus is the mass of inactive profiles and that in countries like Austria they aren’t well known, for the rest I think it isn’t bad at all if you aren’t the average man who writes the typical phrases in description and chat and posts bad pictures.
>>84534 When I was on hinge I was legit matching with 5 big ass girls a day but I was also at my fittest and horniest back then. I got really good at noticing the ways girls hide their size on their profiles and eventually only went for ones that hid their body and used filters/angles and they usually ended up being the fattest ones I met. Depends heavily on location and just how much of a chad you are (hypergamy is real fat bitches want Chad too) im over 6ft, fit and live in the Midwest which is full of fatties so its mad easy here. Did this until I met one that was big but sane and not a ho and we're looking into getting married.
I met my wife after like a week on tinder/bumble (actually matched with her on both). I had also met and scheduled a date with another 300 pound plus girl, my wife's date was first and I knew I was going to stick with her but I had already scheduled the other date so I went on that and had a nice time but had to call it off obviously. So about a week or so on dating sites. That was 9 years ago and my last experience. I used had a gym picture, a race picture, some hiking pictures, and had my height and credit score as my bio.
Currently living in Japan, theres a dating app here called pocha koi. I caved and bought a 1 month membership. But I at least matched with two girls on there, and matched with one more girl on badoo. Not a big spree but hey its something at least. I only met with one girl and havent met with the other two yet.
>>84542 genuinely fuckin how mate? i've been using hinge for a couple months and literally all of them are gym whores.
Question for anyone with experience using Facebook dating: I'm in my mid 20s. What are my chances of hooking up with a 40+ year old BBW. There seems to be plenty on there, but not sure if they are interested or if my chances are so slim its not worth it. Anything I should know when if I match and start messaging one?
>>84534 I'm living in Poland and I had no luck with any BBW / SSBBW. So hard to find a girl like this here. I tried tinder, badoo, bumble.
>>86625 Likely a better chance than most of the other apps. 40+ year old women love being on facebook. Just be a normal person yet speak with intention and you'll land something

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