Feabie is really the easiest way to find someone who fits your preferences, but it can be really difficult to break through the mass of weirdo simps talking to every reasonably attractive girl over 400 lbs. It can be difficult to tell if the person you're talking to is well adjusted or a basement dweller, but if you're just trying to score with someone in the ssbbw range, this will always be your best shot.
WooPlus has only worked for me once and gave me someone 200 miles away. That being said, she was really pretty, super horny, and willing to drive 4 hours to hook up. I think i just got really lucky tbh, other than that its a trash app.
Tinder basically hasn't worked since 2021 lol, fuck whoever runs that shit.
Hinge is the only app that really worked for me. If you exclusively choose only larger women, the app will learn and start sending you every reasonably attractive fat girl in your area. I've gone on dates with around dozen girls in the 200-400 lb range over the course of 3 years and I don't live in that populated of an area. All of them were employed, most were relatively normal, easily the highest quality in terms of personality. It didn't always work out, but god know it isn'talways supposed to. I found my current partner there, one rose and a reasonably worded message and now I'm in the happiest spot I've ever been.
Dating is hard, im not gonna pretend its easy for anyone these days. People are less likely to meet up, and it can be hard to get past the messages. Just don't worry too much about trying to make everything work. Stay interested and try using voice messages if available, it makes the conversation memorable and you'll stick out a lot more than a one sentence text.