>>62143
I feel like you've made a great point about certain types of feeders being very vocal. While I am also not a feeder myslef, I feel that as an enjoyer of feedism content, this sheds a very bad light on the community as a whole.
>>62146
I would be very interested in how they handle things money-wise. Does he just buy her food for IRL feeding sessions? Does he then pay to feed her/have sex with her? If she was really into feedism she should be glad that someone is willing to play into this and sponsor some feedings, right...? Does he gift her any other money?
So here are some of my personal thoughts/critiques on the documentary:
1. I don't think it is possible to discuss feedism outside of fat fetish. Not every FA has a feedism/feeder kink, but I'd argue that pretty much any feeder is also an FA. The documentary didn't touch on this at all, which might not sound that bad, but from my findings, FA's often get confused with feeders (often with death feedism kinks) by people who only ever heard the term feedism and never bothered to look into fat fetish stuff any further. Such a brief analysis would also show that many men who enjoy feedism content do have some sense of morality and would either never feed someone IRL/only sponsor stuffings online, know how to respect set boundaries of their feede, and have a committed relationship with their feede (unlike Tinder creep).
2. They don't make any distinction between feedism and feederism. With feedism, as to my understanding, you don't necessarily need a feeder and mostly gain the weight all by yourself (except for monetary help, selling content etc.). This would then bring to light the existence of solo female feedes who feed themselves in order to gain weight for their own pleasure rather than those looking for praise from their feeder.
3. While female feeders might be pretty uncommon male feedes I feel like, are not the kind of unicorns they are made out to be by the documentary. I mean just look at coomer posts including popular feedism words like "weigh(-in), bloat, stuffing, kcal/calorie etc." and see how many male creators pop up.
4. As they did not mention anything about fat fetishes they missed an opportunity to talk about other feedism-related kinks which are far safer in terms of health problems like: food play, bloating/inflation, padding/roleplay, burping, vore, amazon fetish/domination, squashing, trampling etc. The last ones also challenge another idea perpetuated by the Feeder being interviewed, which is that the feeder is always the dominant part. For things like squashing, humiliation stuff etc. this simply doesn't hold true. Although admittedly making someone obese to an unhealthy degree and their physical strength being attached only to their mass is a shaky argument.
5. Maybe I'm wrong on this, but I would have touched on feedism stuff without the intent of further wg. So idk if this is a thing among feeders but it would seem like a pretty safe way to at least sometimes indulge in this kink but to just limit the number of stuffing sessions and keep day-to-day food consumption at a normal level to maintain weight.
6. The documentary showed mostly negative examples of "feedism gone wrong" all of which were started by the exact same creepy Tinder guy. Geparkes example being particularly bad with the rapid wg. While in reality, rapid wg stays a fantasy even for most feeders.
7. They did not touch on closeted feeders/FA's who are either morally conflicted on the topic or are in fear of social judgment by their friends and family.
8. Another huge missing piece to this is the use of feeder as an inflationary hurtful term towards all FA's who just prefer fat women. A good example on this is @alin_up who recently married @curvemaria. He often gets called out as her feeder, to the point where youtube creators have dedicated entire videos talking about their problematic relationship and his obvious feeder tendencies, he must surely hide from the camera.
9. Terms like chubby, BBW, SSBBW, USSBBW, and immobile were not introduced in order to try and reduce feedism to its most extreme form. I was actually surprised they did not mention death feedism.
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