Man, this isn't great. I've never waited a week to meet in person, FaceTimed first, or waited to disclose that I like fat women (it's on my dating profiles).
That said, I am a literal autist. I mostly date other autists. We do well with direct communication, half of us are asexual (nope), and the other half are horny as fuck and enjoy weird kink stuff. It's pretty good.
Just... take an interest in your date as a person (active listening), have some idea of how to communicate and build relationships with people, and don't be some kind of manosphere freak projecting your bizarre beliefs about women/misogyny. It's really that easy.