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The advantage is that you already know you're not going to get tired of each other after spending a couple hours together IRL. If you're committed to each other and have mutually agreed to what sort of relationship you're trying to pursue, there's no blindside if you meet up and it doesn't turn out how you imagined. Rushing to meet up with each other right now is, like I said, just thinking with your dick. If he scrambles to meet up right this instant and it turns out that outside the screen she just SUCKS to be around, then it just turns into an extremely awkward few days at best and a massive waste of money at worst. Waiting to come back down to Earth before making that decision lets him figure out if this is the start of a potential lifelong partnership or just the longest sexting session he's ever had. Going into a meetup without that understanding could either have a massive payoff or just end up being the most expensive and labor-intensive prostitute ever, as harsh as that sounds. Personally, I wouldn't want to leave that to chance since I am risk-averse and plan my shit out thoroughly and with as much information as I can gather beforehand.
Like I said, he'd still end up with the experience of getting to know her and how she lives her daily life, it's just that if he waits, he can either avoid the whole thing if it turns out they're not as compatible as it seems right now when everything's coming up roses, or he can go into said experience with an actual understanding of what he's trying to accomplish in going. If it's to find a wife, he knows what to look for whereas if he just goes to have a cheeky fuck and see what happens, he might be setting himself up for the biggest disappointment of his life. Even if he does end up learning that it's not meant to be, at least if he waits, he can make that decision like a mature adult rather than a horny teenager just figuring out that the first girl to look his way might not be the one after getting the worst blowjob ever. Again, crass, I know, but that's what he could be in for in a manner of speaking, hell, maybe even literally for all he knows.