alright i’m alive, suprised to see that this post is still om the board, and for those wondering i am still with her.
honestly the reason i haven’t posted is because nothing “crazy” happened, it just kinda… turned into normal life together, which sounds boring but isn’t.
like i am at her place most of the time now. it’s gotten to the point where i don’t even think about “planning dates” anymore, we hang out, and i practically live at her place now.
and yeah before anyone asks, she’s definitely gotten bigger. i’m not even saying that to flex or whatever, it’s just noticeable. we haven’t done a proper weigh-in in a while but you can tell. her clothes fit tighter, she complains more about jeans being uncomfortable, stuff like that
the biggest difference isn’t even the size though, it’s how comfortable she’s gotten
when we first started dating she’d kinda pretend she wasn’t eating that much, or like make small comments about it. now she just… doesn’t care at all. we’ll be watching something and she’ll just keep grabbing snacks without even thinking about it. like chips, chocolate, ice cream, whatever’s there, it just disappears over the evening.
i don’t even have to push it. i just make sure there’s always stuff around and she goes for it on her own. feels way more natural like that.
also something i’ve really noticed lately is how little she moves if she doesn’t have to. like she’ll genuinely take the car for the shortest trips. at first i thought it was just convenience but, she just prefers it that way. same with being at home, once she’s comfy she’s not moving unless she has a reason
not complaining obviously.
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