How do people into this stuff even find each other? Really curious to know since I know it is for sure stigmatized in Mainland China. China is a country opaque to outside observers though and even having Chinese friends doesn't help here because who the fuck asks their friend about how a fetish community manages to find its people in China without being socially destroyed? Any China bros here? How does this fetish work in China? Is the community size substantial?

When I met my girlfriend several years ago she weighed 220lbs. I was never open about the fetish, but she was one of those social media/tumblr "fat acceptance, fat is beautiful" types so she was pretty comfortable with her size and even with grabbing her belly during sex. She had bad eating habits when we met but I think being with me, despite me not forcing her really enabled things. All of a sudden she's built up to eating massive portions nearly every single night and having fast food for lunch almost every day at work. Not to mention a constant stream of snacks throughout the day. She's blown up to 315lbs in just a couple years. She hit a wall briefly around 280-290lbs where the fat acceptance stuff seemed to wear off. I think going from the lower end of fat to very fat, jarred her a little. She started to question her comfort of her weight and size, even bought a gym membership which she didn't use one time. She plateaued for a bit. However, the poor eating didn't completely stop just slowed down and a few months ago she weighed in at 300lbs. I thought this might really effect her but somehow it did the opposite, she texted me right after "All my life I worried about hitting 300lbs but now that I have I realized I'm fat as hell but still sexy as hell." All of a sudden the eating picks right back up and within just a few months she gains another 15 lbs. However, now theres been another mentality change, she hasn't slowed down her eating or had issues with her appearance (quite the opposite still) but she has started to bring up fears of developing health issues. I was hoping that I'd see her blow up to massive proportions, however, now I'm wondering if she's hitting the point where the reality begins to set in. Right now she gets winded going up the stairs and when we have sex and she's burst out of all her clothes but that's the only real consequence. She's pretty smart and I'm sure she realizes that if she continues down this path she'll soon hit the extreme side of obesity and that's when the actual real issues come in. However, luckily due to her fat acceptance ideology stuff she is extremely anti-weight loss drugs. She also has no real concept of actual dieting, when she brings up eating healthier she only thinks of stopping eating take out/fast food she still plans to eat massive meals, just ones that she cooks. Am I cooked? What is the point when reality starts to set in for these fatties.

I know it’s bigger in America but it’s very hard to find any one into this kink in Australia. Feabie also sucks balls Does anyone have suggestions?

Do you ever date below your ideal weight since girls usually pack on pounds over time anyways? Kinda feels like I'm gaming the system picking slightly chubby babes knowing they'll be thicker without any effort on my end.

Tummy tucks and boob reductions are the grossest things a girl can ever do to their body. Even my friends who are only into thin girls agree with me on this. It’s like these fat girls want to be thin so bad they willingly go under the knife to have ugly cut up bodies. They end up looking like a corpse! And whats funny is not only do they now look disgusting to guys that only like fat girls but guys only into thin girls find them gross too because its fucking gross! 🤮 It’s a shame for both sides when a girl decides to cut up their body for both fat admirers and the guys not into fat girls. Nobody is going to find you sexy after that unless they’re extremely lonely and insecure about finding anyone ever. And even then they’ll secretly think you are gross to look at.

So, my fiancée has been putting on some weight. Probably gained 25-30lbs since I met her 4yrs ago but most of it has been in the last 6-7 months. I can mostly get away with telling her I like how she looks because a lot of it has gone to her ass, but she is getting a belly and she no longer wants to be on top during sex because of it. I tried the usual stuff, oh babe youre still hot, I love how you look, etc etc but she is stubborn and just won't do something that makes her uncomfortable. So I try to lean into it a little more. What could go wrong? I tell her that I'm basically obsessed with her body now. We could do any position and id still enjoy it. I love that her ass is bigger now. I love her curves. I tell her all that stuff. Now, she knows I used to fuck fatties. She stumbled on some saved pics on my phone when we first started dating, of a pretty massive girl thst I used to bang. So when I told her I like her body now, she said that doesnt make her feel.better at all, because she feels like she fits more into the fat girl body type that I "used to" go for. Which is correct, but not how I wanted her to take it. She then starts making jokes like "so what are you gonna start force feeding me milk shakes and putting extra frosting on all my desserts and making me have 2 desserts every night?" Which i have to admit, is pretty funny because its dead-on what i would be doing if she actually wanted to get fatter. I chose to deny that I was trying to make her fatter. Anyway, what the fuck do I do now? She does not want to be fat, and its messing with her confidence and what she's comfortable doing in bed. She works a lot and is too tired/lazy to go to the gym. She doesnt have enough self discipline to not snack at night. Last night I said I'd make myself a quick dinner at home but she took me to wawa for a sandwich because she wanted to get herself ice cream too. I am at a loss. The only good thing about this situation is that she has hypoglycemia and is convinced she will die if she takes a GLP-1.

DO NOT WANT.  The newest update on PP is an otherwise attractive hirsute model, but that's enough to ruin it for me. Is anyone else sick of this??  Just because I like fat girls doesn't mean that I want every video to be Fet Salad. Seemingly every video nowadays has to be hirsute, smoking, armpit licking, foot stuff, pissing, farting, cuck, IR, alt., etc. - even on more mainstream sites like PP.  That's fine if it's what your into, but not fine if it's trojan horsied into everything without any separation.  I want to see bg-BBW content without any of the other crap.  Can I still get that??

Bought a custom? Tipped an obscene amount? Huge Christmas present? Share what you spent on a model. Were they grateful?

Am I the only one who thinks the SSBBW scene is kind of dying out? Back in 2010–2014 there were so many stars — Kellie Kay, Juicy Jacqulyn, Foxy Roxxie and many others. But now they’re fading away one by one, and there are no new names to replace them. Which is kinda strange, considering there’s clearly a market for it. Any idea why?

Are there any good discord servers for Fat Admiration that aren't about feedism? I'd love to find a place to chat but I'm just not into that, unfortunately.